I think he's getting hammered by the right wing press who say he is fear mongering. There's a fine line between fear mongering and telling the truth. Thankfully for the moment Mr Obama will be perceived to be on the truth side by most people. Though cynically I bet he hopes the economy at least recovers by 2011 as that will give him a good run into the 2012 Presidential campaign.
I hope things look up for your sister, brother and brother in law and that they find something soon. Being unemployed is no fun. I've been there and done that

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